What 7’s and 8’s do to win over a Full 10 person is to flatter them. To become their professional fan. This, to a Full 10, is known as “interest.” However, they’re sick of hearing it, instead, you need to inspire their admiration of you. If you can’t give them enough things to admire about you, they can’t fall in love with you.
Now, Full 10 men are not great at flattering women, they’re used to being flattered. Full 10 women can struggle with it, too, but I’d say they’re a bit better at that than men are. Flattery and admiration are signs of interest. You have to give a Full 10 woman SOME OF it so she even knows you’re interested, but she also needs you to be admirable to her. BOTH of those things.
Openly admiring her is a must, too.
You cannot admire and flatter a Full 10 woman too much for her to be turned off by it. 8s and 7s, probably there’s a line you can’t cross or they’ll know you’re full of shit, but a Full 10 knows women don’t get much better than her. You still have to know and let her know what it is that you admire. There are wrong answers, fantasy, and BS in there, too, and she knows that as well, but she also needs to see your admirable traits.
For instance, nothing is as annoying as a man who connects you with some generic female traits that in no way represent who you are as a person. “You’re so maternal…” “What? I don’t have kids, and I got sterilization at the first opportunity because I’ve never wanted kids of my own, and you flatter me by calling me maternal?! Who you’re even talking to?” You know? It’s like listening in on someone else’s compliments. Clearly, he’s having fantasies of an entirely different woman and somehow, she’s stuck listening to it.
Social media is a nice way to let her know your opinion matters.
Social media is a great aid these days because you can tell people a lot about yourself without it being too awkward. It may still be, but not as much as it used to be. Modesty doesn’t play too well for you with Full 10 women, but the lower ranks love it… They don’t have to fear they’re not good enough for you.
Talent and skill are scary, especially if it’s talent and skill that doesn’t directly involve pleasing a woman. Still, it is also attractive. It is incredibly flattering to be noticed by a talented and skilled man. The smarter and more in-the-know you are, the more it flatters. Your opinion matters, and if you can demonstrate how picky you are, all the better.
It is any woman’s dream to be loved, admired, respected, and wanted by a man who is talented, admirable, picky, and choosy. If you can demonstrate how you’d only want her is one thing, but to also let her know why she should want you back… Winner.
