I have one principle regarding my relationships: I will initiate a connection three times without your reciprocation—three invites, three chat messages (bouts), three “I love yous,” whatever. If you don’t respond, I will not pick it up again until you do.… ... More ...
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All my life I’ve been felt pressured to give people chances. Nobody has actually TOLD ME THAT, but I’ve felt pressured by spirit, if you can identify with that feeling. Give people the chance to do what is another matter.
Unless this is your first post you’re reading, you probably know I’m a type of a psychic.… ... More ...
There are pick-up gurus, then there are relationship coaches. These are two different things. At worst, pick-up artists aim for short-term relationships or exploitation of other’s feelings, at best, they simply make breaking the ice easier. Manipulation of feelings is one thing, and helping people express how they feel and to explain to them how others feel is another matter.… ... More ...
So the reason why I blog, really, is to find someone who would have a minute’s attention span for my inner world. Someone I could talk to about something other than dishes, trash, and duties. I’m a philosopher. I don’t do dishes, trash, and duties as a fucking conversation topic.… ... More ...
Rankka viikko ja paljon pitkii päiviä takan // Hard week and a lot of long (working) days behindMielenkiintona piña colada ja rata // Interested in pina colada and the track (clubs, he means)Ilta on vielä nuori ja aikaa kumota // The night is young and lots of time to knock backTää jäinen ulkokuori on aika tuhota // it’s time to destroy this icy exterior.
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(I was asked. Send an IM.)
For the record, I don’t REALLY consider men’s professions when I figure out whether I’m interested, but some certainly give a man a bit of a bonus.
- Rock stars. Without a doubt, #1. (Early conditioning, what can I do?
It’s not insecurity, per se. It’s just an acknowledgment that I’m not everybody’s cup of tea, nor do I need to be. I know I’ve made some life choices that are not admired nor understood by all people, and some wonder why anyone would have an issue with any of it.… ... More ...
It just occurred to me. I think my men (TrEmoRs) might think I want to keep the nature of our relationship a secret and maintain a “professional image” toward the public. I’ve long figured THEY might want to keep me a secret, and I’m OK with it, but of course, I’d prefer them out in the open… All of them.… ... More ...
There’s a way of thinking about commitment that says: “No matter what I do to you, or what you do to me, we’ll stick together.” That leads to nothing but abuse when you start testing your partner’s true level of commitment.… ... More ...
So this morning, I woke up to a dream in which a bunch of people, on top of the pack, a black couple (a man and a woman, the woman being the more vocal of the two) were declaring their love, and True Emotion Mirror -position to me… As in THEY were my True Emotion Mirrors.… ... More ...