One of my pet peeves with men is when they ask what do women want in a man. I just can’t even. 
Now.
I don’t mean to suggest you’re stupid. But I do think a lot of men have a weird belief that women share this unbreakable solidarity and uniform way of thinking despite who they are. This is why I ask: Would you ever ask the guy in the red shirt for advice on how the guy in black thinks in business or in fitness? Do you think they want the same kind of woman? Do you think the same type of woman would be able to make both of these men ultimately happy? Could these men make the same kind of a woman happy?
If a woman asked this guy in red how to get the guy in black to date her, do you think he’d give her an honest or accurate answer if he tried? Would he be insulted?
Don’t ask women who are very unlike the one you want for any kind of advice in relationships.
Also, stop thinking all women want the same thing. “What do women want?” is a bad question and is often answered by the women “in red”. “Women” as a whole don’t want anything. Try to be a little more specific.
Except for chocolate and hot showers. Both work for 99% of us.
