Or 60 to be fair. You may have wondered more than once why a Full 10 woman would still be single at 35 or even older. There must be something wrong with her, right? And yes. There’s always the narcissistic personality disorder to look out for, but those women tend to know how to keep a guy… And how to find a new one in a split second. A woman who is more aware of how relationships work and is willing to consider a man’s happiness is not going to rush into things even if they likes men and a lot of men at that.
Women tend to have a bit of a panic attack approaching 30 if they’re not set to marry. We have this fear of suddenly turning into pumpkins at that age. It is at that age when you need to start picking the best ones out of the lot in a hurry and don’t let the 8’s do all the cherry-picking either.
On the second round… They’ll be a lot less in a rush to say “I do” again.
Narcissistic personality disorder.
The women who cannot stand being alone for a second are likely to have a narcissistic personality disorder. To them, a man is an accessory – a proof of her attractiveness and worth – not a life partner, but a pin-lapel person. This is the woman you fear, isn’t it? And you fear every nice woman is in a relationship because, you know… Cool single guys in their 30’s and 40’s are just everywhere… 
A narcissistic woman is very hands-on about getting herself a man. A beautiful one won’t take a no for an answer. They feel entitled to have a man, no matter how they treat him. And they are everywhere. Full 10’s of either gender might be a rarity, but a narcissistic woman is more a rule than an exception it seems… And I don’t blame you for being cautious. But you can learn the tell-tell signs. (Narcissism is a developmental disorder if you ask me. Emotional immaturity. You can tell the severity of the NPD by equating their behavior to a child’s development chart.)
The best ones go first… Except into marriage.
My mom told me when I was a teen that the best are taken first, except into marriage. She explained that people with higher standards tend to be choosy, and it’s difficult for such people to find a suitable mate.
One of the few wise things she has told me. ;p
I’m still single at nearly 50. I bet she’s proud, lol.
While nice men grow on trees, unmarried Full 10 Men do not.
You think the only thing women want from a man is wealth and commitment, don’t you? And yes. That’s what some of them will tell you. You think that a Full 10 woman wouldn’t have any trouble finding a guy willing to commit to her health and well-being, and you’d be right in that assessment. But a Full 10 woman figures she can afford to ask a bit more than that… After all, what man would ever leave her?
She doesn’t need a man to commit to her, so she’s not exactly a punishment to be with. That said, it doesn’t matter how awesome you are if you don’t go anywhere, use dating sites, or have wannabe Cupids for friends. And she’s not getting LESS picky by age and rising self-confidence.
If he’s still single at 40, he assumes you’re married and leaves you alone.
Every man out there believes a good-looking woman is married and grocery shopping for her family, or if she’s out alone, she left her husband at the house because he trusts her, right? Men don’t assume a nice woman in her 30s or older is single, so she’ll stay that way.
Full 10 Men are cautious. They were cautious in their 20s, and they’re double so in their 40s.
Cautiousness is one of the many traits shared by the full 10 people. We were so in our 20s, and we’re more so later in life. We should work on that, however.
So what to do if you’re a bit sick of Tinder?
(I had something a lot more wholesome in mind for that main image, but hey. Sometimes AI gives even when one doesn’t ask.)
