Sir, let me first tell you this: You are a human being, an animal at that, and you don’t always function like some theoretically emotional human being should. This means you will have impulses, desires, and fetishes that would be illegal to act upon. That is normal. We all have some. I do, and every person who I’ve ever spoken about it recognizes at least one or two in themselves. I think we’ve all thought about murder from time to time.
None of that means we have to act on any of those fantasies.
The taboo fetish for helpless women who cannot stop you from penetrating them…
(Gosh darn, I’m turned on already.)
You see, women are just as perverted as you are. Some women fight/nag you just to be overpowered. I don’t suggest you do it apart from on official adult playgrounds; just know that some women fight you subconsciously, wishing you’d force them under your control. Some women are completely passive, hoping you’d know it’s safe to take them without permission.
The only time we need to completely give up hope of experiencing a fantasy is when it comes to children, obviously. And even then, ask yourself what is it about children that excites you… And I bet my morning milk money it’s not their age or size… Per se. So what is it? What kind of an adult could substitute that feeling? Bound? Completely submissive? Eager to please? Someone naive, maybe?
Taboo fetish for unquestioned obedience.
This one is a bit troublesome, really. If your kink involves obedient people, it can go one or two ways. Some people obey because they share the fetish for obedience; they like to bend to another person’s will as much as possible, and they get off on that.
However, some people believe obedience will result in being taken care of or rewarded for showing trust and obedience. They are the 50 Shades of Gray -women; if you just let Dorian fuck you sideways, eventually, he’ll confess he loves you and wants to make you his bride. (Was it Dorian? I guess it doesn’t matter.) Anyway, in this scenario, the woman believes there will be a reward at the end of it. The bigger the abuse, the bigger the reward.
Sometimes, there is no possible way to convince this person that there will be no reward, so they accept it as part of the challenge. Those are the people you need to watch out for, as they’ll sue your ass off you no matter how much you’ve tried to warn them. If the police kick their claim out as ridiculous, they’ll go to the media if you’re important enough and blast your name all over the news for being a Marilyn Manson (who didn’t marry poor little Cybil.)
Women make promises to themselves on your behalf all the time, and you need to be aware of this fact when playing with hot stuff.
Women are much kinkier than you think.
And you’re not as weird as you think.
Stop listening to (closet) lesbian feminists about what grown-ass straight women want out of their men. What offends a lesbian is a compliment to a straight woman. “I take my compliments in the form of cum” I wrote somewhere; I can’t remember where, but it was a good line, so… What offends a lesbian is not the same thing that offends a straight woman. (We’re more offended by not being fucked hard than the opposite.)
Lesbian women do not reliably represent a straight woman. (Nor does a transwoman, mind you.)
Some stuff that just isn’t true across the board
Women want respect in the form of presuming they don’t want sex with you.
Women would find it repulsive if they knew you also like men.
Women find it insulting that you’d check out her breasts or ass.
Women would never want you to have a side chick.
Women would find it insulting if they expressed a wish to also fuck their best friend.
Women would find it insulting if you confessed you wanted to share her with your best friend or another man.
Women find it insulting if you sexualize her (especially if you are not blind to her other traits.)
Women demand that you always perform cunnilingus and foreplay before penetration.
Women fear rapists so much their everyday life is affected by it.
Women don’t really like men.
Women prefer women.
Women won’t want sex with you unless you’re super handsome, well-hung, or rich.
All women are bisexual.
Women don’t enjoy sex, kinky sex, or BDSM.
Women would never fantasize about forced sex or someone stripping them without permission.
Women want commitment before they have sex.
Women don’t have one-night stands without expecting anything more to come out of it.
Women find it degrading if you ask them for naked selfies.
Women don’t like dick pics. (Random, unsolicited dick pics are often frowned upon, yes.)
Women are repulsed by men/cocks/masculinity.
Women would never want to be treated like a fuck toy.
The only thing women want out of relationships is money/power/children.
Women would be happier if men didn’t exist.
List goes on.
While every sentence on that list applies to some women for sure, not one of them is true across the board.
There are some incredibly prudish and naive women out there, sure.
There are some naive women on OnlyFans, too.
Still, here’s the thing. Women who are looking for men to fuck are not going to be hanging out in the feminist circles, are they? They’re on Adult Friend Finder or FetLife. I am also building my own dating hangouts where fetishists are welcome and wanted. (Just Elite. I don’t want any clownsexuals in my clubs.)
The right place for your wrong
We kinksters have to agree that there is a compromise we need to make with those afraid of sex: We play in underground and closed events and societies in which everyone plays by the same rule of no rules or certain rules. We’ll make sure no innocents (or under-aged people, as kinky as they may be) are allowed. If you are anything like me, you will find it boring to give or receive consent from a specific individual, but it would be a lot more exciting to give consent to a whole host of partygoers, not knowing where that leads exactly.
If you feel me, contact me. I may have an elite sex club for you (anywhere in the world). (Elite: looking human. You don’t have to be a supermodel or young, but your looks need to display continued respect for yourself and others. I want to know if you can resist cake and rainbow hair dye on an ongoing basis. I also have tiers from celebrities, high IQ people, and those who know how to wash separated so you can attend different style events when you feel like it.)
Ladies?
If you are a woman and can confirm this, drop a comment and preferably a link to a blog post or a whole blog where you bust (some of) these myths from your perspective. Let’s get our guys off the hook they need not be hanging off on.