There are sexual women in this world who allow you to be the sexual person that you are. They are so few, far, and between these days that you will easily feel gratitude toward that woman to the extent that it may feel like love. While it’s a good and enjoyable feeling and something you have every right and reason to keep enjoying, love is different. While I would stay with and around a woman who fills you up with gratitude for her sexual nature for as long as I can, I’d still keep another eye on other women to see if you can find one that you truly love. There is no reason to reward her with loyalty; she enjoys your sex as much as you do – it is supposed to be temporary.
Remind yourself that if you’re starved for long enough, you’ll eat rotten onions like they were manna from God. It gets more confusing if she’s not exactly fairly compared to a rotten onion. ;p
How feminism ruins it for straight people.
Feminism has done a disservice to the world by making everyone believe that a) heterosexual women don’t exist and b) bisexual women should prefer other women. We women are being systematically shamed for being nice to men, wishing for a straight monogamous marriage, and, even more so, having sex without being compensated for it in some way.
Actively and openly heterosexual women have never, in Western or Eastern cultures at least, been seen as “good women.” We’re sluts, whores, witches even; we give men “ideas,” we lead them astray, we break up families, you name it, it’s our fault. At this time, they’ve just about won, the closet lesbian women. Women very much want the financial perks of being married to a man but want to avoid any and all forms of intimacy between themselves and their husbands.
Heterosexual women are forced into a closet, too.
Us heterosexual girls, what are we doing? Hiding our sexuality and our romantic wishes as shameful and old fashioned and anti-feminist, trying to convince ourselves that our fellow female rape, abuse, and harassment reports are always 100% real and void of malice. Even though heterosexual women have never or only very rarely experienced sexual harassment, they want to believe that the lesbian woman, who is supposedly heterosexual, her experience of feeling “harassed” is on the same scale and reason as what a heterosexual female considers harassment. Then, they try to be on her side, just to be a good woman.
Amber Heard did us all a favor… Maybe Johnny Depp did. They revealed the obvious fact that women lie, pretty women lie, and openly lesbian women can slip back into the closet when a rich enough man presents himself to her. Still, we all want to think she’s an exception. Unfortunately, she’s far from it, and we are all manipulated into hating and mistrusting men. And a woman who breaks that particular mode awakens gratitude. Justifiably, surely.
Find women you’re grateful for to carry you through to true love.
Gratitude is a great feeling, and it goes very well with a load of cum. It also feels good to her, very, very good. However, you should both be aware (and she more than likely is) that this is not true love. It’s appreciation, it’s fun, it’s enjoyable, it’s good, it’s getting there, but a product of the times, not love ever lasting. It is gratitude over a meal served after starvation, but starvation should be temporary. You should be getting meals all over the place, until you fall madly in love with a particular dish. ;p THAT is how you and everyone else should be treated. With sexual abundance until you find true love. Yet, that is not how things are, at the moment.
Polyrelationships, OnlyFans, getting into some group sex thing is a great way to keep your wits about you while looking for that true love. By the way; your true love is sexual. She will love your sexual past, as long as you’ve enjoyed it. She may put a swift end to it with other women, but she’ll love it regardless, because her love for you is complete. We may have to adjust a few attitudes, but once she is ready, she won’t judge you… But she is worth waiting for – in bed with a woman worth feeling gratitude for.
What if you’re feeling gratitude with the woman you actually love eternally?
Having said that, maybe you’re already painfully aware of your gratitude, and how easily you feel it with a woman who allows you to enjoy your sexuality with her? Maybe you’ve noticed this already, and your true love for a woman is mixed with the more familiar feeling of gratitude. If you are aware of the gratitude, you may even fear it is all that it is. That it’s all about the sex. And that can be even harder.
How do you trust you’re not just in love with your hard cock this time, too? Maybe you fear getting to know her, or the illusion breaks. Maybe you just want to continue loving this feeling without risking it all by actually trying to view her as a real person. How do you know it’s safe to?
Maybe you know it’s all good. Maybe you know the timing isn’t right. Perhaps you’re pacing yourself, enjoying the road to it, steady as it goes… Maybe, my dear reader, you are a master in the reigns of true love.
