I somewhat recently found the Attachment Theory. It’s really, really good – and incomplete. However, it is perhaps, in addition to the Narcissistic Personality Disorder description been the biggest eye-opener for me, but… I also realize that the Avoidants will project their problems on you, and they will get all excited when you act disinterested… because you are, but they think “ooh, he/she loves me.”… ... More ...
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To be fair, I know I’m being a total psychic about something, and I’m going to sound nuts. However, you’re still going to fucking laugh if you know me at all. You’re going to laugh anyway. Or cry. Or feel terror or whatever.… ... More ...
This is my constant battle with a “best friend” I’ve got, who I know to be quick to stab me in the back and to be in it for very different reasons than actually to be my best friend. She wants people to think of her as the dependable one, the one I can trust my life with, and someone my loved ones can depend on, but in truth, I know she’s nothing of the sort.… ... More ...
I’ve been living with my ex-husband for longer than we were married, to begin with. I consider him the most reliable person I’ve ever had in my life; at his worst, he’s the best thing I’ve known. However, we’re like family.… ... More ...
I don’t have secrets, per se. I limit what I say in public to be mindful of what people REALLY might not want to know about anyone. I wouldn’t want to, for instance, know a whole lot of details about my female friend’s sex life, but I’d be more than curious about that of men who I’m sexually involved with… With limitations.… ... More ...
I’m not going to say because it’ll be fun talking about it but let’s just say that my first day as a dom has been fruitful. 
I bought myself a suitable chair.
(Yes. The men came with it.)