This is my constant battle with a “best friend” I’ve got, who I know to be quick to stab me in the back and to be in it for very different reasons than actually to be my best friend. She wants people to think of her as the dependable one, the one I can trust my life with, and someone my loved ones can depend on, but in truth, I know she’s nothing of the sort.… ... More ...

I don’t have secrets, per se. I limit what I say in public to be mindful of what people REALLY might not want to know about anyone. I wouldn’t want to, for instance, know a whole lot of details about my female friend’s sex life, but I’d be more than curious about that of men who I’m sexually involved with… With limitations.… ... More ...