It’s not insecurity, per se. It’s just an acknowledgment that I’m not everybody’s cup of tea, nor do I need to be. I know I’ve made some life choices that are not admired nor understood by all people, and some wonder why anyone would have an issue with any of it.… ... More ...
Author: Sebastyne Alpha
The author of Free Spirit Theory, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, the Cat and Dog Type Thinker definitions, and a number of other psycho-spiritual theories. Also, the owner of ZEN METAL lifestyle brand on Second Life.
It just occurred to me. I think my men (TrEmoRs) might think I want to keep the nature of our relationship a secret and maintain a “professional image” toward the public. I’ve long figured THEY might want to keep me a secret, and I’m OK with it, but of course, I’d prefer them out in the open… All of them.… ... More ...
There’s a way of thinking about commitment that says: “No matter what I do to you, or what you do to me, we’ll stick together.” That leads to nothing but abuse when you start testing your partner’s true level of commitment.… ... More ...
So this morning, I woke up to a dream in which a bunch of people, on top of the pack, a black couple (a man and a woman, the woman being the more vocal of the two) were declaring their love, and True Emotion Mirror -position to me… As in THEY were my True Emotion Mirrors.… ... More ...
I’m going to make a public service announcement out of this.
You all think that we lie when we say that small cock will get the job done, or that “it’s not the size but how you use it.” You think that’s a well-intentioned lie, don’t you?… ... More ...
I sleep with men whenever I feel like it, right? I’m not much of a catch in terms of hard-to-get. And yet, I have quite a high opinion of myself, which some people find surprising given the fact I’m an easy lay.… ... More ...
I love famous men—I always have. I love handsome men, age-seasoned or otherwise. I love smart men, genius men, the top 10. I don’t care if that makes me a spinster for the rest of my life or if I have to enjoy my visuals on a YouTube video.… ... More ...
Here’s the thing.
No matter how BAD you are at the game of “hit you harder,” you’re better at it than I am. It has taken me years… If not centuries to realize that you’re actually playing A GAME, and that the objective of this game is to gain… *shakes head in disbelief*
RESPECT.… ... More ...
I’m somewhat of a woman of principle, personally. I absolutely hate relationship games because they are so profoundly based on creating deliberate narcissistic reactions in another person and relying on your would-be partner to react to situations as per their narcissistic knee-jerk reaction dictates.… ... More ...
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