I have one principle regarding my relationships: I will initiate a connection three times without your reciprocation—three invites, three chat messages (bouts), three “I love yous,” whatever. If you don’t respond, I will not pick it up again until you do.… ... More ...
Author: Sebastyne Alpha
The author of Free Spirit Theory, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, the Cat and Dog Type Thinker definitions, and a number of other psycho-spiritual theories. Also, the owner of ZEN METAL lifestyle brand on Second Life.
All my life I’ve been felt pressured to give people chances. Nobody has actually TOLD ME THAT, but I’ve felt pressured by spirit, if you can identify with that feeling. Give people the chance to do what is another matter.
Unless this is your first post you’re reading, you probably know I’m a type of a psychic.… ... More ...
There are pick-up gurus, then there are relationship coaches. These are two different things. At worst, pick-up artists aim for short-term relationships or exploitation of other’s feelings, at best, they simply make breaking the ice easier. Manipulation of feelings is one thing, and helping people express how they feel and to explain to them how others feel is another matter.… ... More ...
I somewhat recently found the Attachment Theory. It’s really, really good – and incomplete. However, it is perhaps, in addition to the Narcissistic Personality Disorder description been the biggest eye-opener for me, but… I also realize that the Avoidants will project their problems on you, and they will get all excited when you act disinterested… because you are, but they think “ooh, he/she loves me.”… ... More ...
To be fair, I know I’m being a total psychic about something, and I’m going to sound nuts. However, you’re still going to fucking laugh if you know me at all. You’re going to laugh anyway. Or cry. Or feel terror or whatever.… ... More ...
So the reason why I blog, really, is to find someone who would have a minute’s attention span for my inner world. Someone I could talk to about something other than dishes, trash, and duties. I’m a philosopher. I don’t do dishes, trash, and duties as a fucking conversation topic.… ... More ...
Rankka viikko ja paljon pitkii päiviä takan // Hard week and a lot of long (working) days behindMielenkiintona piña colada ja rata // Interested in pina colada and the track (clubs, he means)Ilta on vielä nuori ja aikaa kumota // The night is young and lots of time to knock backTää jäinen ulkokuori on aika tuhota // it’s time to destroy this icy exterior.
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(I was asked. Send an IM.)
For the record, I don’t REALLY consider men’s professions when I figure out whether I’m interested, but some certainly give a man a bit of a bonus.
- Rock stars. Without a doubt, #1. (Early conditioning, what can I do?
It’s not insecurity, per se. It’s just an acknowledgment that I’m not everybody’s cup of tea, nor do I need to be. I know I’ve made some life choices that are not admired nor understood by all people, and some wonder why anyone would have an issue with any of it.… ... More ...
It just occurred to me. I think my men (TrEmoRs) might think I want to keep the nature of our relationship a secret and maintain a “professional image” toward the public. I’ve long figured THEY might want to keep me a secret, and I’m OK with it, but of course, I’d prefer them out in the open… All of them.… ... More ...