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Hi, I’m Sebastyne Alpha, the creator of the 3 relationship rule set idea. This is my personal play blog, where I’m using what I’ve learned about human nature, people, men and women, our sexuality, romantic brain, and all that makes life worth living, primarily for giving men hard-ons because that’s what I like to do in life. ;pI’m a life coach who’s spent the last 15+ years studying the reincarnating immortal soul — how we carry patterns across lifetimes, why we keep attracting the same damn lessons, and what actually breaks the cycle. Most coaching assumes you’re much like any other woman or like another man. Most people assume we’re mainly defined by our gender. I don’t.
I built this space because I got tired of watching brilliant people exhaust themselves trying to settle for less than what they were built for. A guy who joined a ship crew at the age of 12 in his previous life to die at sea at the age of 88, is not going to love his life trying to adapt to changing baby nappies and convincing himself that daddies can breastfeed, too. We’re OLD. We can’t change who we are, but we can certainly change whose expectations we pander to. A little fine-tuning, perhaps.
I am not an obedience coach. I’m an authenticity coach, and that means… I want to figure out who you WISH you had the permission to be, in the company you wish you could keep. But… First, I have to figure out how this will work for ME… I have to try it out in practice, I mean.
Want to play (and quit getting played)?
