Here’s the dirt about the other two thinker types.

OK, fellow Cats. First, you should probably know I am one of you. I am biased toward Cats and think we’re the “good people” this will, at times, inevitably color the way I speak, but since I feel I’m amongst friends, I’ll be a little free-er to speak than I’d normally be. Let’s address that, first.

Dogs are brutal for a reason.

If you ask us, we will quickly label Dogs as narcissists. And sure, from traditional psychology’s perspective, they are. Traditionally, us Cat Thinkers LOVE hating them. Myself included. Still, they’ve been through something rough in their past lives, something that has made them fear everything in life; for women, that “everything” is often men, but also not having a man to protect her. It’s like having to tame a bear just to stay safe. For men, it’s easily been other men who they need to be afraid of. And modern times… Also women.

I know majority of men are good men, but what we haven’t always known as a humanity, is the lesbian factor. Lesbians weren’t invented in 1960’s. They’ve always existed. Heterosexuals only need to imagine what centuries worth of enforced, matter-of-fact what-you crying-about sexual relations with a member of our own gender would have done to our psyche. Bisexuals may find it harder to imagine, but heterosexuals will easily understand… Once they think about it.

You’d become very good at manipulating the people you don’t want to sleep with. At using them. You become angry, resentful, and… Traumatized. I believe the Dogs are traumatized. So used to being forced into obedience they don’t even know which way they want to go if they get a chance to “do whatever they want.” (Our actual horses and dogs might be in the same boat to be honest.) They fear giving in an inch as they fear if they do, they’ll lose their autonomy again… Or will never gain it.

Bird Thinkers

OK, Bird Thinkers are nice people for sure. Often we think they’re much nicer people than we are. They like their life simple and love unconditional, and they’re quite the lovely bunch of coconuts. However… We are inherently incompatible with them. Everything they want, we kinda hate. They make a compelling case to defend what they want tho, where as we don’t really. Our reasons are so very… “but I just want to… Why can’t I, when I’m not hurting anyone (directly)?” Theirs is a lot more adult: “You have to take responsibility. You have to grow up and become a productive adult.” Hard to argue, isn’t it? But argue we must. The best way to do that is to avoid them completely. Keep a head low and hope they don’t notice we’re here. And try and find some company as fast as we can, so we don’t appear lonely and in need of a protector because that’s when they see no reason why they shouldn’t rescue us from everything we always wanted.

They’re nice people, yes. Perfectly lovely. However… We CANNOT be in close relationships with them anymore – I’ll tell you more later.

Cat Thinkers

Cat Thinkers however, we think alike. We are fundamentally compatible, but not necessarily by the detail. But we understand the nuance of a difference and the importance of it. We’re not desperately looking for partners, but we just really, really would love or love to be in love. So to that goal:

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• Next, choose your favorite bit of smut. That’ll tell you the NEXT most important division to finding the right people into your life, both platonic and romantic in nature.
• After that, have some fun and fill out your profile… I promise it’ll be more fun than normally.
• You’ll need to be logged in to read Cat Thinker specific stuff. They’ll appear in the blog normally, but if you log out, they’ll vanish. You also won’t be able to share them with someone who has picked Bird or TT.
• You can in some cases interact with the D’s and TT’s on the site, but it should be pretty obvious when that happens.