I’ve named it the “maybe an 8 syndrome” or the M8 syndrome. You think you might be a full ten, but to be one, you have to be realistic and modest. So you go, “I think I’m a full 10, realistically 9, maybe an 8.” You think that that obvious Full 10 guy or girl will come to you if they want you, but it turns out they also have the M8 syndrome. –