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The Lover of Men, Kings and Gods, the Patron Saint of the Masculine.
I certainly am. With a twist, yes. There are people who seem to think that people are either players or the marrying type. Or that people are in the “playah” mode or “commitment seeking” mode. No. People are single or mutually in love. Even if you marry someone who isn’t in love with you, you’re…
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The short answer: Surprisingly different moral code and expectations. There’s the girl’s girl. They make decisions as a pack. Who is going to date who, who can kiss who and when, and what color to wear to the prom and who gets to be the pretty girl. Needless to say, any woman with an ounce…
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About women again. Frankly, I’m tired of the topic but since we’re busy cleaning house with my TrEmoRs, a lot of it has to do with cleaning out old package, much of it comes in the form of women who, to me, have never even flagged an emotional response. So you know I’m a polyandrist…
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The cool guys who every straight girl wants to be a little bit bad. They take the hint and behave. They’re handsome, fun, witty, smart, successful (enough), well-dressed, and well-mannered, sexy, and socially capable. Who you yell at in your dating profiles and your blog are the nitwits. The over-confident, the moronic, the ones with…
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I’ve been working on this psycho-spiritual theory for 15 years. I have felt called to do it. There’s not many people with the IQ and the personality to push something like this trough, so I feel like it’s my job to do it… I can and I’m willing to… And I’m foolish enough to think…
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There are people in this world… Apparently, some of them are my True Emotion Mirrors, who view marriage as some kind of a must-do goal to life. Something that makes you look like a real adult or a real professional in your CV. Like something you have to get done, like it was a school…
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So I was having a conversation about “being an artist” on FetLife. Nice guy. We agreed that to “be an artist,” you have to kinda live for art. You have to Be It. Otherwise, you’re a person who makes art at times. So JD in my head sort of gasps. “I’m not a real artist.”…
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You wanted me to be more difficult to please. I haven’t, historically speaking, ever demanded that my friends, associates, or lovers reach the standard of morality that I hold myself to. The reason is that it is genuinely difficult, and it is INTELLECTUALLY beyond the ability of most people. It requires self-sacrifice in a manner…
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So… I’ve had this blind spot, really. I’ve thought that everybody wants to be good to other people. Up until quite recently, I thought the only reason why people wouldn’t be good people is that they don’t know how, because it is seriously difficult to be an infallibly good person to another. Not because being…
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When I’m not writing smut on the Internet or banging my head to loud rock… (Uh, wait… That’s what I did like 30 years ago. The headbanging I mean…) I’m pondering on soulmates and spirits and the psychology of the immortal soul. I’m also… A bit of an expert in matters of the heart. I…
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