September 2025

I need my men to be infallibly moral people. Impeccably good people, no matter how deep you dig.

September 30, 2025

So… I’ve had this blind spot, really. I’ve thought that everybody wants to be good to other people. Up until quite recently, I thought the only reason why people wouldn’t be good people is that they don’t know how, because it is seriously difficult to be an infallibly good person to another. Not because being…

Why (good-looking & smart) women are so prickly on dating/sex hookup sites…

September 13, 2025

There are people who believe looks and intelligence do not play a part in any type of social scenario. They believe people who think they do are nothing but shallow and egotistical – and they wouldn’t want to assume that you are one of those nasty people. Therefore, they flood your inbox with presumptuous messages,…

What’s “being truthful”?

September 8, 2025

Yes, this is one of those posts with “a hidden” message to someone. I was going to ask, but then I got cut off, and I forgot about it, and then when I remembered, you were already in bed, so… I’m going to write as it’s on my mind. So. When someone asks you to…