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January 2025

The thing that is ALWAYS missing: Nobody lets me talk about myself.

So the reason why I blog, really, is to find someone who would have a minute’s attention span for my inner world. Someone I could talk to about something other than dishes, trash, and duties. I’m a philosopher. I don’t do dishes, trash, and duties as a fucking conversation topic. Those are things that will…

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What do you have to feel insecure about? (Me, that is.)

It’s not insecurity, per se. It’s just an acknowledgment that I’m not everybody’s cup of tea, nor do I need to be. I know I’ve made some life choices that are not admired nor understood by all people, and some wonder why anyone would have an issue with any of it. The thing is, I’m…

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Celebrities should date their fans

Should celebrities date their own fans?

When I’m not writing smut on the Internet or banging my head to loud rock… (Uh, wait… That’s what I did like 30 years ago. The headbanging I mean…) I’m pondering on soulmates and spirits and the psychology of the immortal soul. I’m also… A bit of an expert in matters of the heart. I…

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Commitment even if I suck sometimes.

There’s a way of thinking about commitment that says: “No matter what I do to you, or what you do to me, we’ll stick together.” That leads to nothing but abuse when you start testing your partner’s true level of commitment. So some of us, myself included, over-correct and decide NEVER to hurt, bore, assume,…

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Grand Romantic Gestures… And how I feel about them.

So this morning, I woke up to a dream in which a bunch of people, on top of the pack, a black couple (a man and a woman, the woman being the more vocal of the two) were declaring their love, and True Emotion Mirror -position to me… As in THEY were my True Emotion…

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Sue me; I love Red Carpet -ready men.

I love famous men—I always have. I love handsome men, age-seasoned or otherwise. I love smart men, genius men, the top 10. I don’t care if that makes me a spinster for the rest of my life or if I have to enjoy my visuals on a YouTube video. I’ll wait until fate brings me…

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