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Why (good-looking & smart) women are so prickly on dating/sex hookup sites…

September 13, 2025

There are people who believe looks and intelligence do not play a part in any type of social scenario. They believe people who think they do are nothing but shallow and egotistical – and they wouldn’t want to assume that you are one of those nasty people. Therefore, they flood your inbox with presumptuous messages,…

May 2026

sebastyne.net/bdc is my personal blog (the best kept secret on the Internet) and a community project named NoDrama I’m launching now. Just a little something for my members… Based on my absolute genius psycho-spiritual work.

I’m 50, recently divorced (like in 2012), totally unhinged (= polyandrous and single) and quite ready for fun and games again. Big fun. I finally have enough life experience to live like I was supposed to in my 20’s. (I wish. I miss the 90’s and 2000’s.) Youth is wasted on the young is the truest thing anyone other than myself has ever said.

Some reader of this blog back in 2004 insulted me for being a “forever teen.” It still fits. It still hurts.