Reflecting

Being a good person is complicated. Morality is complicated. That’s why it takes a genius to master.

October 1, 2025

You wanted me to be more difficult to please. I haven’t, historically speaking, ever demanded that my friends, associates, or lovers reach the standard of morality that I hold myself to. The reason is that it is genuinely difficult, and it is INTELLECTUALLY beyond the ability of most people. It requires self-sacrifice in a manner…

I need my men to be infallibly moral people. Impeccably good people, no matter how deep you dig.

September 30, 2025

So… I’ve had this blind spot, really. I’ve thought that everybody wants to be good to other people. Up until quite recently, I thought the only reason why people wouldn’t be good people is that they don’t know how, because it is seriously difficult to be an infallibly good person to another. Not because being…

May 2026

sebastyne.net/bdc is my personal blog (the best kept secret on the Internet) and a community project named NoDrama I’m launching now. Just a little something for my members… Based on my absolute genius psycho-spiritual work.

I’m 50, recently divorced (like in 2012), totally unhinged (= polyandrous and single) and quite ready for fun and games again. Big fun. I finally have enough life experience to live like I was supposed to in my 20’s. (I wish. I miss the 90’s and 2000’s.) Youth is wasted on the young is the truest thing anyone other than myself has ever said.

Some reader of this blog back in 2004 insulted me for being a “forever teen.” It still fits. It still hurts.