Dating

How to take a sexy selfie the way I like…

May 14, 2026

Repost (and edit) from way back when. It’s really difficult to get tips on what to do with photos on a site like this. The quality drops quite fast when people are trying to see what others are doing, and if the first set of photos was poor, so will be the rest of them.…

Should celebrities date their own fans?

January 16, 2025

When I’m not writing smut on the Internet or banging my head to loud rock… (Uh, wait… That’s what I did like 30 years ago. The headbanging I mean…) I’m pondering on soulmates and spirits and the psychology of the immortal soul. I’m also… A bit of an expert in matters of the heart. I…

May 2026

sebastyne.net/bdc is my personal blog (the best kept secret on the Internet) and a community project named NoDrama I’m launching now. Just a little something for my members… Based on my absolute genius psycho-spiritual work.

I’m 50, recently divorced (like in 2012), totally unhinged (= polyandrous and single) and quite ready for fun and games again. Big fun. I finally have enough life experience to live like I was supposed to in my 20’s. (I wish. I miss the 90’s and 2000’s.) Youth is wasted on the young is the truest thing anyone other than myself has ever said.

Some reader of this blog back in 2004 insulted me for being a “forever teen.” It still fits. It still hurts.