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Online/Second Life dating and the way you look in Real Life
My miss guides and I’ve had this on-going dispute over do I focus too much on a man’s looks or not. I love a peacock of a man. I like a bit of… Flare. It speaks about that person, right? To a dummy, what they see is someone putting on a weird outfit that makes…
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This “women are choosing peace” AI-written nonsense.
Single women are choosing peace because men are shite? No. We’re not “choosing peace” we are choosing to not get it wrong again. Being alone with hope of finding someone you genuinely adore (and who adores you back) is better than locking yourself into a relationship with someone you’re not crazy about, choosing compromise and…
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The trouble is, it’s always the guys you are not talking to who take the hint.
Good guys who every straight girl wants to be a little bit bad. They take the hint and behave. They’re handsome, fun, witty, smart, successful (enough), well-dressed, and well-mannered, sexy, and socially capable. Who you yell at in your dating profiles and your blog are the nitwits. The over-confident, the moronic, the ones with an…
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Fuck that. Wealthy men who go woman shopping when she’s on sale.
This goes both ways, for sure. You know when you see a broke ass Full 10 (or so) and you see an opportunity. When someone who should and will be rich as fuck (this life time or another) you take care of them for a while when nobody else does… It creates… Feelings. Relief. Gratitude.…
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I like people who talk about themselves without me having to pry.
I don’t like asking people questions about them. It’s too direct, I feel. There’s a lot of things people don’t want to talk about. I offer a piece of information about myself, and I want you to offer something about yourself. That’s how it works. We build on each other’s experiences and thoughts. So often…
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How to take a sexy selfie the way I like…
Repost (and edit) from way back when. It’s really difficult to get tips on what to do with photos on a site like this. The quality drops quite fast when people are trying to see what others are doing, and if the first set of photos was poor, so will be the rest of them.…
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“Stay alive for me” and “no more bullshit”… OK this is going to get paranoid.
OK. I believe that the events in our lives is a combination of wishes made by people who have an influence on us. At the same time, everyone will always get 100% of the things they want, in order of importance, as long as they’ve become aware they want it. I’ve made a few important…
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I listened to some werewolf romance. XD
I have never, in my 50 years, read ‘clit lit’. No romance novels of any kind, because, well, frankly, I count on them being utterly dumb. So when an ad was running an unusual length of at least 10 minutes of a free sample of some werewolf romance, I let it run, out of curiosity.…
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I’m such a poor loser. So bad.
I was watching Voice of Finland with mom and dad. As always, I battle with my wish to take part but always backing off with some excuse. JD, one of my voices, asked me why can’t I just do it if I want to. “I don’t know” I said, but added pretty soon: “I’m the…
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The problem I have with God.
I’ve been working on this psycho-spiritual theory for 15 years. I have felt called to do it. There’s not many people with the IQ and the personality to push something like this trough, so I feel like it’s my job to do it… I can and I’m willing to… And I’m foolish enough to think…
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