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Why people who are “very loved” are not safe from depression and suicide.
Two kinds of people: Those who believe finding people who love them is damned near impossible, and those who feel finding people who they would love (as much as they love themselves) is damned near impossible. The cold, hard truth here is that if you find it difficult to find people to love you, and…
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I am looking for a polyandrous marriage.
Mkay, have it your way, TrEmoRs. I am going to say it out loud: I don’t really want to be sleeping around… Never really did, but the way I see it, you can’t propose marriage to someone who is not there. Where your intent falls on ears that don’t hear you. I am, after all,…
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So… CAN YOU meet your True Emotion Mirror by agreeing to it telepathically?
I still don’t have a definite answer. The closest I get is “for the most part, no.” Here’s the problem. I opened up my psychic abilities consciously in 2012. I intended to become clairaudient or clairvoyant – clairaudient mostly, as it creeps me out far less than the prospect of clairvoyance. I asked for this;…
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I’m tired of living in someone else’s spaces.
In all my life, I haven’t been able to live somewhere that I consider “mine”. At first, it was rented apartments furnished by my parent’s left 0vers; then, married, with his stuff everywhere; then his parents’ stuff in Australia. Now, I live in the loveliest place I’ve ever lived in – ironically – my parents’…
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I think us girls need his mind in it so we can cum.
Here’s the problem: He tries to not think about it too hard so he doesn’t cum too soon. She thinks he needs to “keep going” so she can “focus”. So he needs to take his mind off it so he can keep going. I think she needs to connect with his mind so she can…
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My polyandry isn’t about sex, I can give up that part for monogamy.
I may not have been clear enough about the reasons why I don’t contemplate monogamy anymore. I think it may sound like an insistence on sexual freedom, but that’s not quite what it is. I can give that up rather easily for monogamy with the right person. The real reason for my polyandrous view is…
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Why I can’t see children as a part of my ultimate romance.
I was about 8 years old when I realized having children is a choice a person makes, not an inevitable thing that happens to you. I was elated. I immediately declared, if that’s the case, count me out, too! Over the years, I’ve experienced two bouts of temporary insanity linked to a new relationship that…
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What are quiet people hiding?
You know, for a while, for my own experience of being a rather quiet person normally, I’ve concluded that people can freely fill in the blanks you leave in a conversation with their own interpretation of how and what you’re thinking about and really feeling. It’s the easiest way to get people to like you:…
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Why “transactional” relationships are bad for you exactly.
Transactional relationships are often talked about, but there may be a situation when people don’t know what that even means. Let me explain: The transaction: I cook and clean for you; you pay my bills. The transaction: I cook and clean for you while you build a career; you make me rich later. The transaction:…
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All the 11 blogs in the world that are older than mine.
On August 19, 2002, the Wayback Machine first captured sebastyne.net. It was about a year after I registered the domain and started a discussion forum that would replace my overflowing guestbook page. That was not the reason I got a domain, however. I wanted to be a part of a Webring called Got Net, and…
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